Tips for listening and sharing

We know that some men aren’t used to talking and sharing openly about sensitive matters. While we don’t want men in the Connect Groups to feel exposed, there are ways to encourage and help everyone share more openly and honestly. The material has been designed to make it easier for men to share in ways that they may not be used to.

Sharing is a deeply personal process. Ideally, we should be left feeling empowered, connected and affirmed after sharing, not misunderstood or hurt.

In order for that to happen, a safe space needs to be created. Three values are crucial for creating a safe space for sharing stories: respect, understanding and trust.

Respect: Having due regard or concern for the feelings, wishes, or rights of others.

Understanding: Being sympathetically aware of other people’s feelings; tolerant and forgiving; compassionate.

Trust: A firm belief in the reliability, truth, or ability of someone or something.